What’s Your Femdom Flavor?

The idea of femdom is among the hottest ways from men to explore their sexuality. One of the things that makes femdom a kinky and pleasurable experience to try is the surrender of control. For men, nothing screams more sex appeal than a woman in control, and a one who knows how to get it.

If you have never done femdom play, but would like to experiment around the idea, there are many ways to put your woman in charge.

Let’s look at femdom up close and personal.

Femdom Flavor: The Categories!

There are three main femdom categories that distinguish from one another, depending on your personal preference. These include:

Gentle Domination!

Gentle domination is great for beginners and those who are not fans on kicking things up a notch. Gentle femdom can include: blindfolds, hair-pulling, talking dirty, being pushed against a wall, kneeling or crawling, and manhandling.

Femdom Flavor: Moderate Domination!

Moderate domination takes your pleasure up a level and it begins once you’re comfortable with all of the above. Some of the activities included in moderate domination include spanking, biting, orgasm denial or edging, handcuffs, and wax play. For all of these, your partner can try various objects or just use her hands.

Aggressive Domination

Aggressive femdom is ideal for advanced couples who are quite comfortable with one another and crave something more. Some of the key things that involve aggressive femdom play include:

BDSM- which can then include discipline, punishment, sadomasochism, and various forms of bondage.   

Choking- from soft choking with a scarf or hands, to using belts and other gadgets, choking is quite kinky if done right. However, as we are talking about choking, it is always best to do it with caution and within a limit.

Gagging— balls, towels, shirts, anything can serve as a gagging tool, so don’t hesitate to get creative. If you like being forced to shut up and enjoy, gagging may just become your favorite.  

Degradation— far from dirty talk, degradation oftentimes focuses on harsher words and insults, which are meant to excite you and turn you into an obedient sub.

Regardless of which level you prefer, it is always advised you and your partner come up with a safe word or gesture and pre-discuss the boundaries. Other than that, the line between discomfort and pleasure is thin, and invites you to jump-rope around it!

Source: https://mrracy.com/how-dominant-bed/

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